She aint nothing but a....

College is a time of self expression and discovery. It is a time when you question society and order. Why is that the way its "supposed to be". I have always been fascinated with how people interact and function. I wanted to be a peopleologist or perhaps a cultural anthropologist or sociologist. What really interests me nowadays is the stigma some women face. For most of my adult life i have always been viewed as the "good girl" or the nice girl by most guys but what makes me good and others bad/dirty/hos. Look at Rihanna she is good girl gone bad!





So what is a "bad" girl. Does she enjoy more sex than a "good" girl? or maybe she is active/blunt in her perusing sex and only sex. Is someone who is labeled a good girl not supposed to enjoy sex and embracing her sexuality. Although women somehow become ranked in this hierarchy we all were the same at point in life. I don't remember any 10 year old hos walking around my classroom as a child.

Whats important to note is not to demonize men for calling women hos but to look at it from a different perspective. All women regardless of their sexual endeavors should be respected... labeling women as inferior beings to other women is idiotic. In the wise words of Bob Marley, make sure your hands are clean before you start pointing fingers ie if she is a ho maybe you are too fella!