Friday, June 3, 2011

man+feelings=?

I am going to make a generalization here...women love feelings! Although there might be some women going, hey I hate that stuff! Most women have been brought up to embrace their feelings. Like Dave Chappelle said, "feelings are very important to women" and he is right. You see feelings and especially good ones make us very happy.


Now that our feelings are set in motion we must determine our comfort level with a guy's feeling. We usually want a guy who is "manly" yet expresses his deepest feelings only to you off course! More like Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice and less like Justin Guarini from that awful "movie" From Justin to Kelly.



Yes it is confusing women can be as feeling driven as they want but men take note there is a fine line. You have to be debonair, a softie on the inside, and tie it all up with mystique. Women often complain that a guy is not emotional enough but i bet we are more freaked out when he is "too" emotional"....if he is then we assume a. he is a mama's boy b. he was suppressed homosexual feelings c. he is creepy and or a liar persuate of  something! or maybe we can go with e. He is normal, nothing is wrong with him, and ahh men can show emotions and its ok!
 maybe that is why some guys choose not to show any emotions. Instead of complaining about them maybe we should figure out what we truly want and be content with it.

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